The Five Greatest Gifts You Can Give to Those Around You

Gift

We often lose sight of the small steps we can personally take to improve the lives of those around us and offer them the greatest gifts we have to give.

Your Greatest Gifts

Below are the five greatest gifts you can give to those around you, that will cost you little but have the potential to improve their lives significantly.

The Five Greatest Gifts You Can Give to Those Around You

1. Give the Gift of Your Attention

“The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention.” ~ Thích Nhất Hạnh

The first out of the five greatest gifts you can give to those around you is the gift of your attention.

In an age where distraction is the default attraction, it’s easy for us to lose sight of the gift that we give to others when we give them our full attention.

Giving our full attention means listening.

It means putting our smartphones down.

It means looking someone else in the eye.

It means asking questions and waiting for the answers not just jumping ahead.

It requires us to be present in this moment. It means focusing on the here and now, without our minds wandering into the future.

It means making a real connection.

2. Give the Gift of Kindness

Give the gift of your full attention to others around you and allow them the stage they deserve.

“Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.”

~ Mark Twain 

The second out of the five greatest gifts you can give to those around you is the gift of kindness….

A little well placed thoughtfulness and kindness can really make a positive impact on people around us.

This doesn’t always have to mean grand, sweeping gestures as small acts of kindness soon add up.

Help a neighbor with their shopping.

Walk a friend’s dog.

House sit for someone.

There are many ways we can offer the gift of our kindness. Not expecting anything in return except maybe the warm feeling we get from knowing we are doing something good for someone else.

3. Give the Gift of Time

The third out of the five greatest gifts you can give to those around you is the gift of time.

“Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give someone is your time. It is not enough to just say relationships are important; we must prove it by investing time in them. ~ Rick Warren

In a world where busy is the norm, giving others some of our time can make a real difference.

We can do this by taking our commitments seriously. By booking in time with friends and keeping that time free for those friends. By making time to stop and shoot the breeze for a while with a neighbor.

By taking time out to spend disconnected from the online world to spend undistracted with a loved one.

4. Give the Gift of Not Judging

The fourth out of the five greatest gifts you can give to those around you is the gift of not judging.

We’re all human and sometimes we make mistakes in life. In such times it can help us all if we can talk to someone that will just listen without making judgments on us. Good friends will do this but we can also extend this gift to others.

5. Give the Gift of a Compliment

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” ~ Leo Buscaglia 

And the fifth-greatest gift you can give to those around you is the gift of a compliment.  

This fits under the umbrella of numbers 1 and 2 on this list but is also worthy of its own spot.

A well-timed and earnest compliment can have an immediate and positive impact on the recipient. It shows we have noticed something positive in others.

This compliment could be related to the physical (a new hairstyle perhaps) or be behavior-based (perhaps you mention how well they presented at a company meeting).

Either way, we all like to hear a compliment every now and again.

These are the five greatest gifts you can give to those around you that will cost you little but will give much.


-credits to purposefairy.com

Instead of the usual listicles that serves to inspire you, we decided to went with something that will help to share the positive with not only you, but also to your closed ones, loved ones, your neighbours, your friends, let us not forget the lessons we learnt in 2020, but instead push forward with positivity to 2021.

Welcome 2021

Credits to: Amy Paige

The punisher

Put your smoke inside the bottle

Let me finish your unfinished business, give me your shoes if you are already tired of running, what else do you like in this world? wasting your time on those silver pieces of paper on the top of your table? what kind of paper is that is good for our health and make us happy? The water is rolling and entering your nostrils.

Well, that’s cool, but the problem is there is a butterfly inside your brain, flies, mosquitoes, and cockroaches.

Would you mind if I break your head so that I could get those insects inside?

Or would you like to smash your head on the wall so that they will go outside and you can think of better days and brilliant ideas?

Do you still have parents, sons, or daughters that will cry in the middle of the night when they remember you? or you just tired of being with them and you were so boring the whole day of your life spending time with them.

Your hands were trembling and your feet and knees were shaking. Do you like some water so that you can drink a lot and stop choking? Well, that’s the alternation of what you did yesterday, maybe you are guilty or you are not ready.

The smoke is rising going outside from the bottle, just like our sins that you can’t hide from the eyes of our creator. Every drop of blood is like a drop of gasoline slowly crawling on the floor and straight ahead below your deathbed.

One person is equivalent to thousands of other innocents, it is better to cut that red wire before it explodes and implicating others.

The almighty creator will not come down in this world to punish those transgressors, that is why he chose also humans to lead those many and save them from sinning and routs those abusers of free will.

To kill a person is a mortal sin, but realized these situations.

Some people have no faith, no religion, and no belief, they don’t care about what will going to happen if they transgress and commit their mortal sins, they don’t believe in scriptures and they don’t believe in unseen creatures.

Killing innocents lives is not their issue, what if they would rape our mothers, our sisters, our children, and babies. They have no fear no conscience and has no rules. They always play the game without limitations and no exemption.

That is why there is a penalty of death to avoid those violators and the destroyers of laws.

Killing now is exempted when it is a penalty to pay their debt. A debt from other lives that they also took.

If there is no penalty of death, they could have done a lot of sinning in this world, we can’t wait for the end of the world before they punish and claim the justice of their victims they abused.

The culprit always leaves a dazzling smile when the justice is for the money and the victims are for the misery.

The justice of sharia law is more fearless than another justice system. When the son of a king together with his friends raped a young girl, they will gonna pay the price and their heads will gonna roll on the land.

Most of these days there are lots of violators and transgressors that has no fear to commit mortal sins. There you can see everywhere around the world adulterers spreading across the land. Coveting the wives of others when their spouses are not around.

While the husband working hard outside from his promise land. Earning money and send to his beautiful spouse whilst the other man entering the body of his beautiful wife. Whilst their children playing in the other room and their mother having fun with the other man.

Later on, the innocent man has seen his wife making love to the other man, it was recorded from their phone and published on social media while their children were crying and their mom was laughing and dangling with her man.

The father climbed on the top of the towering peak of the crane and jump over with rope on his neck and hang himself because of pain.

In sharia law, it is forbidden. To covet thy neighbors should be punishable by the law. It is not an ordinary punishment they will attain, death is the answer to those who violate the law of supreme the Creator.

We have here an example of a leader who has no fear to punish all those violators. We can change the world if we could have gotten a kind of this lionheart leader.

Punishment of our Almighty is not here on earth

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The punishment is depending on the leader that has a heart and has no mercy to those who violate and harm innocent lives.

Our Deeds

Sow your efforts and harvest your success

Sometimes in our lives, we often fight with too much anger and bitterness it usually happened to relatives and friends mostly. Because they know they have known each other they have known their attitudes and weaknesses and in the end, turn into hatred and enmity.  I have experienced that because I also tried to abuse other people and my relatives.

All of the bad things I did before I already repent and regret.  Likewise, my relatives, have also tried in their lives that they were also abused and mistreated by their relatives and other people as well.

They have done bad things to other people for many reasons.  If only the bad things that happen in our lives are just passing by.  It just proves that there is no perfect person in this world.

So sometimes when I realized it, I also think of the sins I have done against other people.  So I still can forgive the one who sinned against me.

We are all the same species, we are all sinning against each other.  So the most important thing to do in life is when you want to forgive others who have wronged you and also think about the bad things you have done to your neighbor since you became aware of the right and wrong things.

So we also can still forgive others because we have also made mistakes ourselves.  So if we think about it, our lives are full of situations and different ways of dealing with ourselves, our relatives, and other people not related to us.

But even so, goodness still prevails in man because other situations that we can no longer solve are being sought by the Lord just to solve problems, whether they are small or big sins. After all, the Almighty knows that his people are really weak beings, and not all problems we can solve that is why we still have to seek the refuge and assistance of our Creator.

Angels are always there beside us on the lookout for our movements.

So friends, when we sometimes feel in our life that it is really difficult to forgive, you know because sometimes the hardest thing to do in our lives is to forgive others immediately but think to yourself if you are no longer doing bad things to yourself, to your relatives, friends, and people we didn’t know also to ourselves as well. If you think that kind of perception, you will realize that we should have to pardon.

This way you can see the other side and you can balance the situation whether you will forgive the person who wronged you or not.

And you can imagine that all of us human beings have sinned and made mistakes with each other.

Except how serious the sin of man has been in our lives for others and themselves.

Because our sins are in many categories, like human law there are many situations, many reasons, and many ways to study them.  So it still depends on the situation and the kind of sin we have committed.

There is a rule that our people strongly forbid in our law that when you do it you will be imprisoned and pay the price of the sin you have committed.  Like murder, stealing, rape, and other sins that you can be jailed for if you violate them.

So whatever kind of sin there is, there is still a chance that we can forgive and there are also sins that have the opportunity to give you hope to change and be forgiven and it depends on the weight of the sin we have committed.

If your sin is only a small reason you can be forgiven or to forgive and why not, if your sin falls into the categories of not being imprisoned and being fined for the sin you have committed why should we tyrants and not forgive others.

But if your sin is serious and there is just punishment in human law, you have to pay because you are still in the world, and when we sin against the Almighty that has not been seen in human law and is not given justice, let the Almighty power to judge them and punish them whether in this world or the hereafter.

Because in other religions the law of the Creator and the law of man is not compatible so they still do those things which are prohibited to other religion because in their belief and their scripture that it is ok, so we don’t need to fight with their belief or to harm them right away just to convince them to believe in your religion because, in this world, we lived in different situations and cultures. 

So let the Almighty show his guidance to other humans if they were not rightly guided or they were guided the best thing to base and observe a kind of person is inside his/her heart and its deeds, in Islam is taqwa.

so let the Almighty Creator judge us in the next life. Let them worship in the way of teachings what is in their religion, and let us focus on our religion on what our scriptures have written and do what we believe and our teachings. 

The only being who can guide us, humans, is the being who created us all, no one can guide you if God will mislead you astray, and no one can lead you astray if you are rightly guided by the Almighty.

Sow your efforts and harvest your success

Let’s feed the hunger

Let’s feed the hunger

Nowadays not all countries are prosperous, rich and the government can support all their constituents.

Many in other countries are still suffering because of the negligence of their appointed leaders in their country, so most of the people living in the country are full of corruption and oppression of the poor people.

There are still countries that are suffering and still live in squatters areas mostly with the poor.

One of the biggest victims of poverty is your young people, also because of the negligence of their parents, it just depends maybe if you can have a partner or a couple because when they both separated but they have money somehow the children are not so miserable at least they have something to eat, and that is the most important.

What if the children are their parents who have no money and almost nothing to eat in a day, what will happen is that the children will just pick up garbage on the street to eat at least because they have been neglected by their parents.

So I hope we have a little compassion and at least have a little conscience in ourselves that our food is delicious but some people have nothing to eat in a day out there.

So we are still lucky because the Lord has not spared us the extreme poverty in life.

I made this blog to convey to people all over the world that we need to help them, the children walking and scattering on the streets because they have nothing to eat.

Let’s help them and even if we can contribute at least 1 dollar or even 2 dollars that wouldn’t make you broke your budget when they have accumulated it will be a big help for the supply and purchase of their food.

I have a link posted below and if you want to help, that program is open for the young. Not only for the young but also the poorest of the poor people it is already in general, babies, children, adults, and old people.

http://bit.ly/34wyJNJ

Let’s help them

Move first and see the results

Make your move fast

Often in our lives as humans, sometimes we love to criticize our neighbors. We love obtrusive acts and notice the faults of others.

It is easy for us to criticize bad things from other people, but their good deeds we always ignore. Sometimes we do not value good praise from other people because of arrogance and self-centeredness that we always thought only for ourselves, and we always thought that we are greater and better people than others.

Often what happens in our lives we would always take great care of another person’s life but when we notice our mistakes we easily get mad. It is just the same that we slapped our faces a thousand times in front of many people.

We need to give ourselves some glimpses in the mirror before condemning others. If there is someone who has done wrong it should be corrected and not be laughed at.

Because of arrogance, they sometimes do not give importance to other people. We always remember, no one wants to be bad in their lives and suffering, we all hoping for a victory and abundance in life.

“So if” you see people less than our knowledge we should not mock. Always remember that our dear Creator is always looking out for us every move we take. 

Every one of us has the potential and abilities to do anything depending on our training, studies, experiences, and practices, and efforts.

If they have any shortcomings or mistakes of themselves we will correspond and let us not insult them, each one of us has twin problems and weaknesses since our birth. 

So the level of our knowledge is different because of our parents, and the lives and experiences of our parents were different.

But somehow we do not think that they are the factor of their efforts and papers into their lives. The situation of their life still has depended on their efforts and also their past failures.

So we went to the situation that we suffered because of the neglectful acts of our parents and our forefathers as well and they did not afflict and worked hard when they were young and in proper old age in their times.

There are also young people today who have suffered dwelling their lives in great poverty in their lives and that because of their failures and being neglectful from their previous lives.

We did not study hard, and we are trying closely with ourselves when we are still in school and have been so neglectful for all the opportunities that have come to us, and always depending on another person.

So do not be envious of others because it is not like magic that their lives have become wealthy and triumphantly directly, all of that is because of their efforts and hard-worked from their past.

While we are still alive like other people, the Almighty God has always assisted us and protected us as long as we are always asking for his guidance and support.

In our lives, we should make an effort, so we need to act and strive for whatever our jobs or whatever we are doing in life to be successful. We need to work hard and be dedicated to what we are doing and setting ourselves up for what we want to be in the future.

Don’t just sit there and wait for the table to turn. Always empty your cup and always put some fresh water in it.